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This or that is the simplest getting-to-know-you game: two options, no overthinking. Here are 30 questions in five rounds, from pizza or sushi to the big dilemmas. Send them as a quiz: it takes a few minutes to answer, and you'll learn more than you'd think.

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Food and drink

Starting easy.

  1. Pizza or sushi?

    This or that?🍕 Pizza / 🍣 Sushi

  2. Coffee or tea?

    This or that?☕ Coffee / 🍵 Tea

  3. Sweet or savoury?

    This or that?🍫 Sweet / 🥨 Savoury

  4. Long brunch or late dinner?

    This or that?🥞 Brunch / 🍝 Dinner

  5. Spicy or mild?

    This or that?🌶️ Spicy / 🥛 Mild

  6. Ice cream or cake?

    This or that?🍦 Ice cream / 🍰 Cake

Weekends and travel

Where would we find you on a Saturday?

  1. Camping or a hotel?

    This or that?⛺ Camping / 🏨 Hotel

  2. Planned trip or spontaneous adventure?

    This or that?🗺️ Planned / 🎲 Spontaneous

  3. Road trip or train?

    This or that?🚗 Road trip / 🚆 Train

  4. Cinema or concert?

    This or that?🎬 Cinema / 🎸 Concert

  5. Museum or theme park?

    This or that?🖼️ Museum / 🎢 Theme park

  6. Summer or winter?

    This or that?☀️ Summer / ❄️ Winter

Dates

Now the answers start to matter.

  1. Picnic or restaurant?

    This or that?🧺 Picnic / 🍽️ Restaurant

  2. Dancing or a late-night walk?

    This or that?💃 Dancing / 🌙 Walk

  3. Surprise date or one we plan together?

    This or that?🎁 Surprise / 📅 Together

  4. Flowers or a handwritten note?

    This or that?💐 Flowers / ✉️ Note

  5. Make the first move or wait?

    This or that?🙋 I'll go first / ⏳ I'll wait

  6. Board games or video games?

    This or that?🎲 Board games / 🎮 Video games

Habits

Small things that say a lot.

  1. Call or text?

    This or that?📞 Call / 💬 Text

  2. Up at the first alarm or snooze five times?

    This or that?⏰ First alarm / 😴 Snooze

  3. Made bed or creative chaos?

    This or that?🛏️ Made bed / 🌀 Chaos

  4. Your own playlist or the radio?

    This or that?🎧 Playlist / 📻 Radio

  5. Gym or a run outside?

    This or that?🏋️ Gym / 🏃 Run

  6. Book or series?

    This or that?📚 Book / 📺 Series

The tough calls

Worth arguing about.

  1. Travel to the past or the future?

    This or that?🏛️ Past / 🚀 Future

  2. Flying or invisibility?

    This or that?🦅 Flying / 👻 Invisibility

  3. Big city or quiet countryside?

    This or that?🏙️ City / 🌾 Countryside

  4. A few close friends or lots of acquaintances?

    This or that?💛 A few close / 🎉 Lots of people

  5. Know your future or be surprised?

    This or that?🔮 Know / 🎈 Be surprised

  6. Heart or head?

    This or that?❤️ Heart / 🧠 Head

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