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25 questions

Questions to ask your girlfriend

Asking “how was your day?” is sweet, but it rarely starts a real conversation. These 25 questions do: a few silly ones to warm up, a few about the two of you, and a few she'll want to answer properly. Send them as a quiz and she can answer whenever she has a quiet moment.

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Warm-up

An easy start.

  1. Morning person or night owl?

    This or that?🌅 Morning person / 🦉 Night owl

  2. What's your favourite comfort food?

    Short text

  3. What's your perfect Sunday?

    Single choiceIn bed with a series · A long brunch · A hike · With my friends

  4. What are you secretly obsessed with?

    Short text

  5. What's the last thing that made you laugh until you cried?

    Short text

  6. How adventurous are you?

    Scale1 Couch, please ↔ 10 Up for anything

  7. Do you believe some things are meant to be?

    Yes / No

About us

Now it's about you and me.

  1. What did you think when you first saw me?

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  2. Which of my habits do you love most?

    Short text

  3. A cosy night in or a dress-up dinner?

    This or that?🕯️ Night in / 🥂 Dress-up dinner

  4. What's been our best moment so far?

    Long text

  5. What nickname would you give me?

    Short text

  6. What makes you feel most loved?

    Single choiceKind words · Time together · Hugs · Little surprises · When I help out

Dreams

Where she's headed.

  1. What do you imagine your life looks like in ten years?

    Long text

  2. Which country would you fly to tomorrow if you could?

    Short text

  3. What would you love to learn but haven't dared to yet?

    Short text

  4. A city apartment or a house with a garden?

    This or that?🏙️ Apartment / 🏡 House with a garden

  5. Describe your dream day in three words.

    Short text

  6. Would you ever live abroad?

    Yes / No

The deeper stuff

Worth taking your time over.

  1. When do you feel safest?

    Long text

  2. What's something you've never told me but wish I knew?

    Short text

  3. What's the most important thing a past relationship taught you?

    Long text

  4. What do I do well that you rarely say out loud?

    Short text

  5. What would you love us to be doing together this time next year?

    Long text

  6. Are you happy with me?

    Yes / No

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