Getting to know you questions
The first few messages always go the same way: hey, how's it going, what are you up to. These 24 questions get you further. Some are quick and easy, and some actually tell you who you're talking to. Ask them one by one, or send them all at once as a quiz and watch the answers come in.
Easy starters
A quick warm-up.
Morning person or night owl?
This or that?π Morning / π¦ Night owl
What are you reading, watching or listening to lately?
Short text
Dog person or cat person?
This or that?πΆ Dog / π± Cat
What's your favourite spot in town?
Short text
What does a typical Friday night look like for you?
Single choiceOut with friends Β· At home with a show Β· Working out Β· Always different
Which emoji do you use the most?
Short text
Everyday life
What a normal day looks like.
What do you do, and what's the best part of it?
Long text
What's the first thing you do in the morning?
Short text
How tidy are you?
Scale1 Creative chaos β 10 Everything in its place
What's the hobby you always make time for?
Short text
Cook or order in?
This or that?π³ Cook / π΅ Order in
What food could you eat any day of the week?
Short text
Taste
Music, films and travel.
What's the best concert you've been to?
Short text
What film could you watch over and over?
Short text
Mountains or the sea?
This or that?β°οΈ Mountains / π The sea
If you could leave tomorrow, where would you go?
Short text
What's your kind of holiday?
Single choiceRest and doing nothing Β· Sightseeing Β· Adventure and hiking Β· A festival
What's your guilty pleasure?
Short text
The real stuff
Where you find out who you're talking to.
How would your friends describe you in three words?
Short text
How have you changed in the past year?
Long text
What's something you couldn't live without?
Short text
What's the best advice you've ever been given?
Long text
What's a dream you rarely talk about?
Long text
What makes an ordinary Tuesday a good one?
Long text
Send these as a quiz
They answer on their phone, card by card, and you watch it happen live. You can edit any question before you send it.
Make it a quizMore question ideas
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