First date questions
The best first dates are half planned, half improvised. These 20 questions help with both: where to go, what to avoid and what to talk about once the drinks arrive. Ask them before you meet, or send them all at once as a quiz so neither of you has to type an essay.
The plan
Where, when and for how long.
What's your ideal first date?
Single choiceCoffee · Drinks · A walk · Dinner · Something active
Daytime or evening?
This or that?☀️ Daytime / 🌙 Evening
A place you've been meaning to try
Short text
How long should a first date last?
Single choiceAn hour, tops · A couple of hours · Until they close · As long as it's fun
Split the bill or take turns?
This or that?🤝 Split / 🔁 Take turns
The vibe
So you know what to expect.
How much do you plan a first date?
Scale1 I just show up ↔ 10 I have a spreadsheet
Talker or listener?
This or that?🗣️ Talker / 👂 Listener
Phones face down on the table?
Yes / No
A topic you could talk about for hours
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Is a little awkward silence okay?
Yes / No
Good to know
Small things that matter.
Anything you don't eat or drink?
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If it's going well, up for a second spot?
Yes / No
Hug or handshake to say hi?
This or that?🤗 Hug / 🤝 Handshake
What green flag do you look for on a first date?
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Which red flag ends it for you?
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Conversation starters
In case you get stuck.
What's the story you always end up telling?
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What's on your bucket list this year?
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What's the best thing you've eaten lately?
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What would make this date a 10/10?
Long text
Anything I should know before we meet?
Short text
Send these as a quiz
They answer on their phone, card by card, and you watch it happen live. You can edit any question before you send it.
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