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Long distance relationship questions

The hardest part of long distance isn't the miles, it's running out of things to say on a video call. That's where these 24 questions come in: they're about missing each other, staying in touch and the next time you meet, with a few video date ideas too. Send them to your partner as a quiz and you'll have plenty to talk about tonight.

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Missing each other

Because it's the hardest part.

  1. When do you miss me most?

    Single choiceRight before bed · At the weekend · When something good happens · When I see couples together

  2. When you really miss me, what do you do?

    This or that?📞 Call you / 🖼️ Look at our old photos

  3. How much do you miss me right now?

    Scale1 I'm coping ↔ 10 I'd leave right now

  4. Which thing reminds you of me the most?

    Short text

  5. Do you ever sleep in my T-shirt or hoodie?

    Yes / No

  6. What gets you through the hardest days when we can't be together?

    Long text

Staying close

So the distance is just geography.

  1. How often should we video call?

    Single choiceEvery day · Every few days · Once a week, but a long one · Whenever we feel like it

  2. A morning text or a call at night?

    This or that?☀️ Morning text / 🌙 Night call

  3. Have you ever fallen asleep while we were on a video call?

    Yes / No

  4. Which show should we start together, watching at the same time?

    Short text

  5. How happy are you with the way we keep in touch right now?

    Scale1 Could be better ↔ 10 Perfect as it is

  6. What would you love me to send you in the post?

    Short text

Video dates

A screen can't stop a good date.

  1. Which video date would you try next?

    Single choiceCooking the same recipe · A synced film night · An online game night · Candlelit dinner on camera

  2. Video date: dressed up or in pyjamas?

    This or that?👔 Dressed up / 🛌 Pyjamas

  3. Would you love it if I surprised you with a food delivery mid-call?

    Yes / No

  4. If we had a quiz night for two, what would your topic be?

    Short text

  5. How much do you enjoy video calls?

    Scale1 Audio only, please ↔ 10 I could go for hours

  6. Plan our next video date in two sentences.

    Long text

The reunion

The countdown is on.

  1. What's the first thing you want to do when we see each other again?

    Short text

  2. An airport hug or a surprise at the door?

    This or that?✈️ Airport hug / 🚪 Surprise at the door

  3. How do you count down the days?

    Single choiceWith an app · Crossing them off a calendar · In my head, to the day · I don't, it goes faster that way

  4. Do you think we'll live in the same city within a year?

    Yes / No

  5. How do you picture our life once there's no distance between us?

    Long text

  6. How excited are you about our next visit?

    Scale1 Pretty calm ↔ 10 Can't sleep

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