20 questions

Red flag questions

Better to find out now than three months in. These 20 questions playfully ask about the habits most red flags come from: texting, dating and exes. There are a few green flags at the end too, so you're not only looking for the bad stuff. Send them as a quiz: yes/no cards, one swipe each.

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Texting

Where most people give themselves away.

Have you ever gone days without replying to someone you were dating?
Yes / No
Have you ever ghosted someone?
Yes / No
Have you ever answered a serious message with just an emoji?
Yes / No
Do you check when someone was last online?
Yes / No
Have you ever sent a 2am “you up?” text?
Yes / No

Dating

How you do it right now.

Are you dating more than one person right now?
Yes / No
Have you ever cancelled a date last minute with an excuse?
Yes / No
Do you check your phone during a date?
Yes / No
What are you looking for right now?
Single choiceSomething serious · Whatever happens · Just meeting people · Not sure yet
Do you think jealousy is a sign of love?
Yes / No

The past

Everyone has one. What matters is how they talk about it.

Are you still in touch with your ex?
Yes / No
Was it always your ex's fault when things ended?
Yes / No
Would you get back with an ex?
Yes / No
Have you ever trash-talked an ex on a first date?
Yes / No
What did you learn from your last relationship?
Long text

Green flags

So you're not only looking for the bad stuff.

Do you find it easy to apologise when you're wrong?
Yes / No
Would you introduce me to your friends within a month?
Yes / No
Do you talk about your feelings?
Yes / No
Are you kind to waiters even on a bad day?
Yes / No
What's your biggest green flag?
Short text

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