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Flirty questions

A good flirty question is light, a little bold, and the answer tells you whether to keep going. These 20 are exactly that: some this-or-thats, some yes-or-nos, and a few they'll be smiling while they answer. Ask them one at a time, or send them all at once as a quiz.

Warm-up

Still innocent.

  1. Eyes or smile?

    This or that?👀 Eyes / 😊 Smile

  2. What's the best compliment you've ever had?

    Short text

  3. Do you make the first move, or do you like being chased?

    This or that?🏹 I make the move / 🦋 Chase me

  4. Do you flirt with emojis?

    Yes / No

  5. What's your type?

    Single choiceThe funny one · The mysterious one · The smart one · Whoever surprises me

If we went on a date

Just hypothetically. For now.

  1. Where would you take me on a first date?

    Short text

  2. Hold hands or put your arm around me?

    This or that?🤝 Hold hands / 🫂 Arm around me

  3. Is a kiss okay on a first date?

    Yes / No

  4. What would you wear on a date with me?

    Short text

  5. How nervous would you be beforehand?

    Scale1 Not at all ↔ 10 Very

A little bolder

Here's where the chemistry shows.

  1. Have you ever dreamt about me?

    Yes / No

  2. What do you like most about me?

    Short text

  3. Midnight text or early morning call?

    This or that?🌙 Midnight text / 🌅 Morning call

  4. Did you think about me today?

    Yes / No

  5. What was the first thing you thought when you saw me?

    Short text

Confessions

Only if you dare.

  1. Do you like me?

    Yes / No

  2. On a scale of 1 to 10, how much chemistry do we have?

    Scale1 Just friends ↔ 10 Fireworks

  3. Tell me a little secret about yourself

    Short text

  4. Would you go on a date with me?

    Yes / No

  5. Tell me in 15 seconds what we'd do on our date

    Voice note

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