Flirty questions
A good flirty question is light, a little bold, and the answer tells you whether to keep going. These 20 are exactly that: some this-or-thats, some yes-or-nos, and a few they'll be smiling while they answer. Ask them one at a time, or send them all at once as a quiz.
Warm-up
Still innocent.
Eyes or smile?
This or that?👀 Eyes / 😊 Smile
What's the best compliment you've ever had?
Short text
Do you make the first move, or do you like being chased?
This or that?🏹 I make the move / 🦋 Chase me
Do you flirt with emojis?
Yes / No
What's your type?
Single choiceThe funny one · The mysterious one · The smart one · Whoever surprises me
If we went on a date
Just hypothetically. For now.
Where would you take me on a first date?
Short text
Hold hands or put your arm around me?
This or that?🤝 Hold hands / 🫂 Arm around me
Is a kiss okay on a first date?
Yes / No
What would you wear on a date with me?
Short text
How nervous would you be beforehand?
Scale1 Not at all ↔ 10 Very
A little bolder
Here's where the chemistry shows.
Have you ever dreamt about me?
Yes / No
What do you like most about me?
Short text
Midnight text or early morning call?
This or that?🌙 Midnight text / 🌅 Morning call
Did you think about me today?
Yes / No
What was the first thing you thought when you saw me?
Short text
Confessions
Only if you dare.
Do you like me?
Yes / No
On a scale of 1 to 10, how much chemistry do we have?
Scale1 Just friends ↔ 10 Fireworks
Tell me a little secret about yourself
Short text
Would you go on a date with me?
Yes / No
Tell me in 15 seconds what we'd do on our date
Voice note
Send these as a quiz
They answer on their phone, card by card, and you watch it happen live. You can edit any question before you send it.
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