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24 questions

Deep questions to ask

Small talk is fine until you want to actually know someone. These 24 questions go further: who they are when nobody's watching, what they want from life, and what they've never said out loud. They need a little time, so send them as a quiz and let them answer when they're ready.

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About yourself

Who you are when nobody's watching.

  1. When do you feel most like yourself?

    Long text

  2. What's something few people know about you?

    Short text

  3. Which experience shaped you the most?

    Short text

  4. How introverted are you?

    Scale1 Total extrovert ↔ 10 Total introvert

  5. Which decision are you still proud of?

    Long text

  6. Have you changed a lot in the past year?

    Yes / No

About life

Big questions, honest answers.

  1. What does happiness mean to you?

    Long text

  2. If you had one year left, what would you do differently?

    Short text

  3. Security or adventure?

    This or that?🏠 Security / 🧭 Adventure

  4. What do you regret not doing?

    Short text

  5. Which value would you never compromise on?

    Long text

  6. What makes you feel successful?

    Single choiceBeing loved · Being free · Creating something · Helping others

Relationships

How you love.

  1. How do you know when someone truly loves you?

    Long text

  2. What did your last breakup teach you?

    Short text

  3. Can a friendship turn into love?

    Yes / No

  4. What would you never put up with in a relationship?

    Short text

  5. What would you take from your own family into yours, and what would you leave behind?

    Long text

  6. How easily do you trust people?

    Scale1 Very slowly ↔ 10 Instantly

About us

Only if you dare.

  1. When did you first feel we really connected?

    Short text

  2. What have you learned from me so far?

    Long text

  3. What would you ask me that you haven't dared to yet?

    Short text

  4. Where do you think we're heading?

    Long text

  5. If we started over, would you do it all the same way?

    Yes / No

  6. Tell me in 15 seconds how you feel about me right now

    Voice note

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