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24 questions

Questions for couples

After a while you think you know everything about each other. Then one question proves you don't. That's what these 24 are for: a few easy memories, some about your everyday life together, and a few things you rarely talk about. Send them to your partner and turn the answers into a good conversation.

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Memories

Where it all started.

  1. What was your first impression of me?

    Short text

  2. When did you first feel this could be something more?

    Long text

  3. What's your favourite memory of us?

    Short text

  4. Who asked who out first?

    This or that?🙋 Me / 👉 You

  5. Which moment of ours still makes you laugh?

    Short text

  6. Was it love at first sight?

    Yes / No

Everyday life

The small things life together is made of.

  1. What small gesture makes you feel most loved?

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  2. Cook together or order in and watch a show?

    This or that?🍳 Cook / 📺 Show

  3. How fair is the way we split the chores?

    Scale1 Hmm… ↔ 10 Perfect

  4. Which of my habits do you love most?

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  5. And which one drives you a little crazy? You're allowed.

    Short text

  6. What's your love language?

    Single choiceWords of affirmation · Quality time · Gifts · Acts of service · Physical touch

Dreams and plans

Where are we headed?

  1. What do you picture our life looking like in ten years?

    Long text

  2. Where should we travel together next?

    Short text

  3. What's one thing we should definitely do together this year?

    Short text

  4. Where would you rather live with me?

    This or that?🏙️ In the city / 🌳 In the countryside

  5. Which of your dreams could I help you with?

    Long text

  6. Do you think it's important that we also do our own things?

    Yes / No

Deeper waters

The things we rarely talk about.

  1. When have you felt closest to me?

    Long text

  2. How can I support you better on a hard day?

    Long text

  3. What are you grateful for in our relationship?

    Short text

  4. What did we learn from our last argument?

    Long text

  5. Is there something you've been meaning to tell me?

    Short text

  6. Tell me something sweet in 15 seconds

    Voice note

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