Romantic questions to ask
You don't need candlelight and red roses: sometimes a good question is the most romantic thing there is. These 24 are about what really moves them, their dream date and how they feel when they think of you. Send them to your partner or crush as a quiz and read their answers on a quiet evening.
Your romantic side
Let's see how hopeless a romantic you are.
How romantic are you?
Scale1 One heart emoji is plenty ↔ 10 Candles, rose petals, the lot
Do you believe in soulmates?
Yes / No
A candlelit dinner or stargazing outside?
This or that?🕯️ Candlelight / ✨ Stargazing
Which song would be our song?
Short text
Which gesture makes you melt the most?
Single choiceHolding hands · A handwritten note · Remembering the little things · Surprise flowers
What does being in love feel like to you?
Long text
You and me
Our little moments.
When do you think about me the most?
Single choiceWhen I wake up · Randomly during the day · Right before I fall asleep · Pretty much always
Sunset or sunrise, just the two of us?
This or that?🌇 Sunset / 🌅 Sunrise
What always makes you smile when you think of me?
Short text
Have you ever saved one of my messages to read again?
Yes / No
What's it like being with me? Sum it up in three words.
Short text
How many butterflies do you get when I text you?
Scale1 None ↔ 10 A whole swarm
Dream dates
Let's plan the most beautiful one.
Describe our dream date from start to finish.
Long text
A picnic in the park or dinner on a boat?
This or that?🧺 Picnic / 🛥️ Dinner on a boat
Where would you take me for a romantic weekend?
Single choiceParis · A cabin in the woods · The seaside · A spa hotel
Would you dance with me in the rain?
Yes / No
Loads of photos together or phone-free memories?
This or that?📸 Loads of photos / 🫶 Phone-free
What's one thing a perfect date can't do without?
Short text
The big feelings
These take a little courage.
When did your heart first skip a beat because of me?
Long text
Would you write me a love letter?
Yes / No
What's a little thing you love about me that I probably don't even notice?
Short text
How would you tell me I matter to you, without words?
Single choiceWith a long hug · With a surprise · With a look · By cooking for you
How sure are you that this is something special?
Scale1 Still figuring it out ↔ 10 Completely sure
If you knew I'd keep it forever, what would you tell me in one sentence?
Long text
Send these as a quiz
They answer on their phone, card by card, and you watch it happen live. You can edit any question before you send it.
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